HEALING destructive habits helps us move forward into a more conscious existence of happiness and unity with others in life. It is no wonder that so many people of all ages have problems with addictions from alcohol and other substances to sex addiction and other unhealthy habits. Living in a world that is so contradictory to our nature naturally causes us to seek escape to feel better. Harmful and addictive pharmaceuticals promoted by unconscious Corporations driven by pressure from their stock holders to constantly increase profits makes things even worse. The very fabric of the way our society functions is toxic and needs to be reorganized in order for life to thrive on Earth. Joy is our nature yet it is not easy to feel joy when we live in a contradictory world where so many are suffering from the famine and trauma of warfare as refugees and veterans of war or those suffering the degeneration of drug addiction. Many individuals require a lot of healing from traumatic events which humanity was never meant to experience. Even growing up in unhealthy environments can create dysfunctional patterns which cause one to seek to escape. Working from 9 to 5 every day of the week is also unnatural and can be stressful, especially when it takes parents away from precious time with their children and loved ones. Humans needs space and time to follow their own instincts with quiet time to be with themselves as well. A 5 hour work day with more down time in between and higher pay is more sane and would strengthen individuals and families in a positive way both emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically.
Italy has a more relaxed work week than anywhere I have seen and the people have much more meaningful and happier lives with an emphasis on family and togetherness around abundant meals with friends and family regularly. Traditionally Italians close all stores daily for 3-4 hours to have lunch at home with family, eating delicious food with several courses. A typical work week in Italy consists of Monday mornings off until after lunch which is until 4pm or 5pm, Tuesdays and Wednesdays are regular work days. Thursday afternoons are off with all stores closing at 1pm except for establishments like Coffee Bars, Tobacco Shops, Food Markets and Restaurants. Fridays and Saturdays are regular work days. This gives a more natural flow with rest in between. It is more in tune with the human body to take breaks which also improves quality of work. Italians do not have many therapists because everyone talks about what is bothering them openly with family and friends day and night. No one would pay good money to talk to a stranger when they are too busy having engaging and emotional conversations amongst themselves all the time. Happiness, frustration, love and anger are all expressed freely and openly without social norms restricting expression. There are times when therapy can be very helpful yet it is much less needed in countries with strong and open communication skills in well established social circles.
- Anna M Smith
