PHYSICAL LOVING IS AN ART AND A BEAUTIFUL INTERACTION TO EXPLORE WITH THE PERSON WHOM YOU ARE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. KNOWING HOW TO BE IN THE MOMENT WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT LETTING YOUR PHONE OR ANYONE ELSE TAKING AWAY YOUR ATTENTION IS IMPORTANT. TO GET GOOD AT LOVING ANOTHER PERSON ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS SPEND MORE TIME DOING IT. WHATEVER YOU PUT YOUR FOCUS ON IN LIFE IS WHAT YOU WILL EXPERIENCE MOST.
MAKING PHYSICAL LOVE TO SOMEONE IS NOT THE WHAT PORNOGRAPHY REPRESENTS. MAKING LOVE IS A SPONTANEOUS AND PASSIONATE EXPERIENCE IN THE MOMENT AND IT IS USUALLY FILLED WITH TENDERNESS AND EXCITEMENT THAT CAN EXPLODE INTO DEEP FEELINGS AND DESIRE JUST FROM THE SLIGHTEST TOUCHING, HOLDING HANDS OR KISSING OF THE SKIN OF ANOTHER PERSON. MAKING LOVE TO SOMEONE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PERFORMANCE OR PERFORMING NOR AT ARRIVING AT A DESTINATION. MAKING LOVE IS SIMPLY SHARING THE TENDERNESS AND PASSION OF MUTUAL PHYSICAL AFFECTION AND FEELINGS WITH SOMEONE AND FOLLOWING THOSE FEELINGS PHYSICALLY TO WHEREVER IT IS COMFORTABLE AND SAFE FOR BOTH PARTIES TO GO WITH IT. CHECKING IN WITH THE OTHER PERSON TO MAKE SURE THEY ARE COMFORTABLE GOING FORWARD IN THE MOMENT IS A SWEET AND ATTRACTIVE EXCHANGE.
- ANNA M SMITH
